Story of the Blessed Child Part 2: Reflections and Gratitude – 30th Birthday Thought

Hello there…

Let me start by congratulating you. If you’re reading this, it means you’ve survived, thrived, and made it to another year. Your presence here is proof of resilience, strength, and divine purpose. Congratulations and happy new year.

Five years ago, I shared Story of the Blessed Child part 1. Make sure to check it out.  The genesis of my journey and a testimony of God’s unwavering hand on my life. Today, as I step into my 30s, it feels right to continue that story, a story of grace, growth, and gratitude. This blog post may also be a continuation of my recent blog, Life Before 30- making the Most with your 20s, so for a comprehensive understanding do make sure to check them all out,  let’s get into it shall we? 

A Graceful Beginning

It all began in 1995, on what many might call an untimely day, but in God’s perfect design, it was exactly as it should be. Born prematurely in the seventh month of my mother’s pregnancy, I entered a world that seemed to challenge my survival from day one. Two months later, my mother passed away. Two years after that, my father followed. To the world, it might have seemed like I was destined for Doom. But God had other plans.

My life has been a declaration of His sovereignty. I’ve come to understand that my survival wasn’t a coincidence but rather a statement of divine purpose. Like Samuel, who grew in favor with God and men, my journey has been a blend of trials and triumphs, all woven together with God’s grace, from my Career path to personal growth and passions, family to relationships, business, community engagement and everything in between, God has been the best chauffeur.  

Navigating My Career Path

From the moment I graduated, God’s favor on my career has been undeniable. After earning my diploma, I stepped directly into a good job with great pay, and the same happened when I graduated with my degree. I didn’t just find work, I found purpose.

My journey began with a passion for journalism, radio, and TV. Over time, that passion evolved into communications, branding, and advocacy. I grew from being hands-on with photography and videography to designing strategies and campaigns. Each step has been full of growth, opportunities, and learning.

God’s hand has been evident every step of the way, guiding me, teaching me, and opening doors that only He could open.

Spiritual Growth

The past decade has been a season of phenomenal spiritual growth. I’ve deepened my relationship with God, moving beyond the surface of what the church or others say, to truly understanding Him for myself. This season has been marked by personal encounters with Him, moments of hearing His voice, and walking in obedience to His will for my life. I know that sounds like what only pastors say but heyy! it’s very true, I have had and still get to have some of the craziest chats with God, “adhaa aja amatha kucheza heavy” (his truly a good good father and friend ) 

God has shown me time and again that He is the source of everything I need. Whether it was during the eight months I spent unemployed or when He opened an international door that brought me to a place of abundance(I have another blog coming soon where I expand on this), He was there, providing, protecting, teaching, and refining me.

Emotional Growth and Relationships

Emotional maturity has been one of the most profound areas of growth in the past decade.  I’ve become more aware of my emotions, my surroundings, and how my actions affect me and others. I’ve learned to navigate challenging situations with wisdom, whether it’s handling disappointments, conflicts, failure, or failed relationships. (izi zomati ndiwe chimunthu chachikulu koma ma emotions bwee, please this year zilekeke auntie, my brother zitolereni please) 

This growth has allowed me to process life’s ups and downs with grace, letting go where necessary and cherishing the lessons along the way.

Hmmm hhmm clears the throat 

When it comes to romantic relationships. The past few years have given me the space to understand myself better, refine my values, and set clear expectations for the kind of relationship I desire. Yes, there have been a few or many failed attempts, lol, but each one has been a lesson that prepared me for something better and greater. They taught me more about love, compatibility, and the importance of self-awareness.

I look forward to meeting my suitable helper/person and building a life together, but I’m also grateful for this season of growth as It’s inspired a future book project – titled Love, Relationships, and Me where I’ll explore the dynamics of love, self-awareness, and building healthy relationships. While it’s still a work in progress and will likely take a backseat until I settle down. The experiences of the past 29 years provide a solid foundation for the wisdom that I hope to share. (book ili tizatulutsa koma mochedwa lol) 

Hobbies and Passions

In the past decade, I’ve cultivated new hobbies and rediscovered old passions. Hiking, in particular, has become a major part of my life. I’ve climbed over ten mountains in Malawi, and this activity has been both physically and emotionally rewarding. It’s helped me stay fit, clear my mind, and spark creativity.

Through hiking, I’ve met amazing people and experienced the beauty of God’s creation. It’s been a win-win for my body, mind, and soul.

Life isn’t built to be just about work, church, or business. I’ve learned the importance of balancing it up and making time for everything that matters, from pursuing goals to enjoying hobbies and cherishing loved ones. True fulfillment comes when we work hard, pray hard, and Play harder as we take moments to Live, Love, and Laugh. This Balance is where life’s magic happens!

Financial Growth and Responsibility

Talking about money can feel a bit awkward, but it’s clear many of us need guidance in this area. Looking at the amount of financial advice I have given out these past few years, I’ve been thinking of writing a whole blog on Money and Money Management, but I always hold back because no one really wants to be told how to use and spend their money, especially my generation, so I will see. 

With financial growth comes greater responsibility, not just in caring for others but also in managing your own resources. Even if you have no dependents, are you making smart choices with your finances? How are you stewarding over what God has entrusted you with? I have seen young people who say I have no dependents so I can enjoy and spend, yoo it’s not a beautiful sight from an economist’s point of view. In the world of instant gratification yoo , young people are having Phones, hair’s , shoes , etc that they should not have at the moment, living in houses they shouldn’t live in, and driving things they are not yet at the level of driving. Zili ku Malawi 😂🙌🏼

Being financially responsible means thinking beyond the moment, saving for emergencies, investing in opportunities, and planning for the future. It’s not about how much you earn but how wisely you use it. Over the years, I’ve moved from carefree spending to intentional financial planning. While I’ve made mistakes, each one taught me valuable lessons.(nafe takhalako houses we shouldn’t be in, munthu ndiwe intern what are you doing nyumba ya 100/150 sauzande lol kapezeni boys quarters ya 40/50 pin ku kawale uko lol) 

Today, I can see the results of disciplined money management. God has blessed me, and I have used the blessings not just for myself, but also to help and uplift others around me. Financial maturity isn’t just about numbers; it’s about building a life that reflects growth, responsibility, and purpose. Pray I write that blog lol. 

Reflecting on God’s Goodness

As I look back on the past decade, one verse comes to mind: “We went through water and fire and yet You brought us into a place of great abundance” (Psalm 66:12).

God has been faithful in every season, whether in the valley or on the mountaintop. From moments of uncertainty to seasons of breakthrough, His hand has guided me. Even now, as I live in a land experiencing war, His protection and peace surround me daily. I am grateful for the journey. Today I stand boldly Like the psalmist and say

 “I will tell of your goodness; all day long I will speak of your salvation, though it is more than I can understand. I will go in the strength of the Lord God; I will proclaim your goodness, yours alone. You have taught me ever since I was young, and I still tell of your wonderful acts.” ‭‭Psalm‬ ‭71‬:‭15‬-‭17‬ ‭GNT‬‬

Cues in – The story I’ll tell – Maverick city music. Thus the summary the past 29 years , my God did not fail . 

 A Word of Encouragement

If you’re reading this and may feel like you’re walking through a season of trials, I want to remind you that you’re not alone. Every challenge, every setback, every unanswered question is part of your story and Your story is still unfolding. God is writing something beautiful with your life.

It’s not happening to you , it’s happening for you. – Travis green. 

Trust in God’s timing, even when it’s hard to see the bigger picture. He doesn’t choose the equipped; He equips those He chooses. And right now, He’s equipping you because you are chosen and destined for greatness. So smile, you’re in the hands of the One who knows the end from the beginning.

I know God’s training and equipping can feel tough. Trials and tribulations are often His tools and trust me, I’ve been there. It’s not pretty, but it’s purposeful. When He’s done, you’ll meet a stronger, wiser, and more refined version of yourself.

What feels like a detour right now may be the very path He’s using to lead you to your purpose. Hold on, keep faith alive, and know that He’s working all things out for your good.

As we begin the year 2025, I want to help you silence every voice from the pit of hell. Revelation 12:11 reminds us that “They overcame him (the devil) by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.” Let my testimony be a reminder that you can rise above every lie that tries to condemn you and says you’re a mistake, that you can’t, or that you’re not good enough.

I’ve heard those voices before, but countless times I’ve overcome them. Today, I remind you: that you are exactly who God has called you to be. You are capable, equipped, and chosen for the mission before you. The resources you need are already within your reach, all you need to do is step out in faith.

Dare to trust God and take the first step. 2025 is your year to rise, conquer, and shine. You’ve got this! (say Amen ) 

Looking Ahead with Hope

Seeing what he has done in the past 29 years, I peacefully look forward to the future ahead, as I know This is only the beginning. I have stories to tell, lives to impact, and dreams to pursue. I fully comprehend that the life I’m living is all part of a greater plan, and I align myself with that plan in every season. 

As I celebrate this milestone, my heart overflows with gratitude. To the boy I was, thank you for never giving up, for daring to dream, and for dancing in the rain during life’s storms. To my present self, keep going. The future is bright because you’ve chosen to trust God and walk boldly in your calling.

To God, who has been my anchor, my provider, and my guide, I owe everything. Thank you for the grace that has carried me, the strength that has sustained me, and the purpose that keeps me moving forward.

Join Me on This Journey

As I step into my 30s, I’m excited to launch a new platform where I’ll be sharing more stories, reflections, and lessons to inspire, impact, and transform lives. My new website www.davidmj.com will be live soon, and I invite you to join me there. Let’s journey together through this new year, discovering purpose, building resilience, and celebrating Milestones along the way.

I’d love to hear from you. What resonated with you in this story? (And its previous versions) What are some lessons from your journey that you’d like to share? Your feedback is always valuable and helps me grow as a storyteller.

Don’t forget to comment, share, and let’s spread the message far and wide. Together, we can inspire others to keep moving forward.

Let’s step into this new chapter together, full of gratitude, faith, and purpose.

Here’s to the next decade of grace and greatness, here’s to more stories of grace, growth, and gratitude! CHEERS 🥂 TO 30 🥂

Happy New Year.